Teens Back In Diapers!!!

Are you aware that we have many, many teens that are back in diapers. Very surprising ha! Take it from me this is a very stressful situation for both the teen as with the parents. There are many reason this can occur the teen could be stressed out due to pressure, trauma, diabetes, excretory system, medication that he/she might be taking and more. The most important thing you should do is take the teen for a full check up. This will help to rule out medical problems, it could be something new that has developed. Please whatever you do never let your fear transfer to the child. Try to be as supportive and understanding as possible you don't won't the situation to get worse. The most important thing to do is limit the teen intake of liquids. There are many teens that has to rely on using diapers...yes diapers durning this time..adult diapers, adult pull ups,bed wetting diapers and much more. A bed wetting teen will try to hide the fact that he/she is wetting the bed. This is very easy to do by changing the bed early each morning while you may be wondering where all the laundry is coming from. You must be careful that the teen don't pick up that you are worried . This is why again..I have focused on a wonderful bed wetting timepiece that will help to eliminate bed wetting for all incontinent suffers. This devices offer so much more then it's functions it offers a design that is pleasing to the eye and giving that individual the look of just a standard watch but with special features to assist them. Again I ask ...will you help me make a bed wetters dream come true. A dream of being incontinence free and living a more active and healthier life.

Until Next Time: God Bless, Remember children are people too.

Death & Dying... do we really understand it!

As I sit at my desk this wonderful day thinking to myself what I would like to talk about . Well I know that this is all going to come as a surprise but I wish to talk about Death & Dying.

Death is the cessation of connection between our mind and our body.
Intellectually we all know that one day we shall die, generally we are so reluctant to think of our death or the death of a love one, and we tend to live our lives as if we were going to be in this world forever. As a result the things of this world-such as material possessions, reputation, popularity, and the pleasures of the senses~~~ become of paramount importance, so we devote almost all our time and energy to obtaining them and engage in many negative actions for their sake.Are you aware that we are so preoccupied with the concerns of this life that there is little room in our mind for genuine spiritual practice.

When the time of death actually arrives we discover that by having ignored death all our life we are completely unprepared.
What is death? Death begins when the heart stops beating. Deprived of oxygen, a cascade of cellular death commences, beginning with brain cells and ending with skin cells. Death is a process rather than an event. Specifying the moment of death usually involves deciding on a point from which there can be no return.I love the easy way that I have heard and used myself when dealing with my dying patience saying our body is like a guesthouse and our mind like the guest: when we die our mind has to leave this body and enter the body of our next rebirth, like a guest leaving one guesthouse and traveling to another.


There are many signs of death when dealing with a dying love one:

Sleeping A person nearing death may stop talking or responding and begin sleeping more and more as his body changes how it uses energy. Always assume that he can hear, even if he seems unconscious and no longer communicates. Keep talking to him and touch him if touching provides comfort. This is truly important because they can hear you until the end.

Loss of Interest in Food and Fluids: As the body begins to shut down and loses its ability to process food and fluid,

Coolness: The patent's nose, ears, hands, arms, feet and legs may feel increasingly cool to the touch.

Rattling Sounds in the Lungs and ThroatRattling: sounds which can be quite loud, can occur when a person is taking fewer fluids and loses the ability to cough up secretions.

Bladder and Bowel Changes: The ill person may lose the ability to control urine and stool as the muscles in that area begin to relax.

Disorientation and Restlessness: A person nearing death may seem confused about the time or place.
Breathing Pattern Changes: Breathing patterns often change as the body continues to shut down. You may notice period of rapid, shallow breathing and many more signs..
But whatever you do remain calm don't allow them to think you are scared because it can sometimes affect them.

They will become worried about you....lets help them to enjoy the rest of there time here on earth. Set up some smoothing music for them , rub there hair and feet sometimes it helps to relax them. And last but not least ...talk to them every minute you get believe it or not they can hear everything you are saying to them.

Tell them how much you love them ..tell them about the good old days...tell them how you will tell your children or other love ones how great they where. Assure them that it's OK.People I say to everyone death will one day hit us all in one way or another. Hug & Kiss your family tell them how much you love them and for those that are dealing with a dying love one. Give them your all!!! For we never know when death will come a creeping.

This information is not intended to substitute or replace any medical physician... this is just my medical opinion as a nurse. Please always consult your physician with any questions or concerns you may have regarding medical treatment.

What is the most funniest thing your child has ever said!! Kids say the darndest things!

As many of you know I love children and I feel compelled to ask you: What is the most funniest thing your child has ever said. You know children are truly remarkable and they bring so much joy and laughter to us all. Yes, I know..... sometimes even though we love them so much they can also be a pain in the butt. LOL

But on the other hand sometimes they can say somethings that will make you pee on yourself from laughter. lol I can tell you this-- when they cut loose they can really cute loose. I can remember a time when I was sitting down with one of my daughters and she and I where watching one of those T.V. show makeovers and when the lady came out..Lex stated mom she looks sweet but didn't they forget to make over her feet.

I said her feet.... she said yes.....she said look at her feet they are hanging over her shoes and it makes her feet look like fingers. So as we both where laughing she looked over at me and said mom.... don't laugh too hard you sure could use a Boo bee makeover. lol

So of course being a mom I had to really laugh at what she said about me lol..... because it was really funny especially the way she looked at me.....Wow out of the mouth of babe comes the truth they say . LOL

Well I ask you Mom's what is the most funniest thing your child has ever said to you!!!

Taking Care of the Elderly... etc......

Taking care of an elderly and sick family member is not easy. Upon taking care of your sick family sometimes a radical change in lifestyles has to occur. We all feel a responsibility to take care of our sick family members because that is what we have learned from our families. As our Elderly members become older in age it becomes difficult for them to try and still manage there every day lives. We all do it from our hearts but we still have to admit that it leaves little time for ourselves and sometimes truly takes a toll on our bodies. Are you aware that this difficult situation is shared by many of the families of Americans. Many seriously ill or incapacitated elders often need attention 24- hours a day. This can create a serious of conflict for some people. Often I have seen that there is no one to take care of them, due to school or work obligations. It is more complicated when small children are involved. Sometime we never think of how that love one might feel. Just think for a minute.. that you woke up much older then you where when you went to sleep. Think of your body aching constantly and not being able to do the things you where able to do before you went to sleep last night. Wow I can't even began to try.... nor can I come to grasp of becoming older. Imagine someone has to assist you with bathing ,eating, taking medicine and assisting you with going to the bathroom. You can't imagine it.... can you! That' how our love one feels and much much worse. You see as they become older things began to change... the body the mind the soul and more. I say to everyone that has been taking care of your sick love one...be patient...... try and understand that it is very difficult for them as well. Never being able to take care of themselves anymore like they use too .....not able to remember much anymore......body changing every so often. The Bible tells us to DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD WON"T THEM TO DO UNTO YOU! Well I say, that is so true!! You see our elderly loves ones have done all they could since we where brought into this lovely world. Now it's our turn to do unto them all we can to help make there lives some what comfortable. I know I have done my part in many of our elderly plus those that are in my own family. I also know that even though I am not working anymore in the medical field God still has provided me with another mission in helping our elderly. "The Night Helper Potty Watch will help to solve some of there incontinence problems and also will assist with reminding them to take there medicine. I might not be able to physical work with the elderly sick but I want them to know that I am here...here to express my love and support for them. People let your love flow...do all that you can..leave them with a smile that today .Let them know that God allowed us all to be here and that know matter what ....even if it never gets any better we can still Stand And Say........I DID ALL I COULD DO.....And I'm OK with that. And believe me they will be too!!

HELP THEM ENJOY ALL THE MEMORIES THEY CAN!!!

Love to you all!!

I'm so happy that Mothers Day is coming again. You see even though I am a mom! I'm Happy that my mom is still here to enjoy this day with us. As I visit her and see the difference in her age I wonder to myself Lord how much longer will you allow her to be with us. See I come from a very large family and we lost our dad and one sister to cancer back to back. So now I always say to myself.... Lord how long will you allow us to enjoy mommas company here on earth. She is very very vibrate and extremely smart . She can handle paying her bills better then me. LOL She can count her money and keep up with every dime better then anyone I have ever seen. She's wise ya ll I mean very wise. She don't go out anymore like she use to her legs just are not the same anymore but what I love about my mom is no matter how bad she might feel that day or any other day she never complains. She always says there is somebody out there who is worst off then me.She use to tell us back in the day...that we should never complain about anything... food, clothes, shoes or anything. Because there is somebody out there that has no food, someone out there that has no clothes, someone out there with no feet to wear shoes . She has always told us to Be Thankful Know Matter What because..... whatever your needs maybe ....God will come along and provide it for you. She always made us laugh even now with some of her old stories about her and my dad. Do you know she is 83 and still likes to cook those big meals as if we all still lived with her. How Cute!. I say to everyone who still have there Mother treasure the moments for we never know when God is going to call them home. I also say to those who have lost there Mom treasure those memories that you have of her..because know matter what may come.

NO ONE CAN EVER TAKE OUR MEMORIES AWAY!!HAPPY MOTHERS DAY MOM!!!Happy

Mothers Day To All My Mom's

Medication For bedwetting...Do It Really Work!!!

Medication for bedwetting ...do it really work! Well honestly I think it may work for some kids and for others not.Me I don't think I would like to put my child on medication sometimes the side affects are worse then the actual problem it's self. Take for instance the DDAVP(Desmopressin Acetate) nasal spray...yes nasal spray that is available to help prevent bedwetting. Boy I can't believe it... you probly are saying that as well but it's true. The nasal spray carries a synthetic version of a hormone called vasopressin which is normally made in the body.Vasopressin serves several roles,one of which is in water regulation.When the body needs more water in the blood stream,it produces higher levels of vasopressin which in turn cause more water to be absorbed from the kidney.Less urine is made and the urine becomes more concentrated.WOW! can you imagine a nasal spray that will help you to retain water and decrease the amount of urine produced. This might be helpful but that I don't know when you look at the side affects who would want to allow there children or love ones to try such a spray.My concern would be the use of this medication would cause serious side effects like water intoxication.That's when the body holds on to too much water and the salt of the body becomes too diluted.This can cause seizures and brain swelling.

Well as for me and all the children and elderly adults that I speak for. NO THANKS !!!

Again I say just because your love one is having this problem of incontinence do not mean it's the end of the world. Take the time just to let them know that they are not alone and there is so much support out there for them.

The next time you come across this issue with your love one: Take a moment and breath then hug them and tell them it's alright we will get through this together.



Until Next Time: GOD BLESS

Hello Eveyone,I 'm back!!!!!

Today I want to ask you: What Would You Have Done!!You see just the other day I read about a 9 year oldmentally challenge young girl who was excluded fromschool by her Principal because she urinated on herself.The Mother of the child stated that the child wasmaking loud noises and was asked by her teacher to pleasebe quite.When the child continued to make the noises theteacher sent her to the Principals Office.He then began toshake the child and speaking in a tone that was very loudand disturbing to the child which caused her to react byurinating on her self. The child simply became scared bythe shaking and the loud tone of the Principal. What giveshim the right to treat a child who is already sufferingmentally and physcially.... that I don't know but what I doknow is this... he should have been the one that wasexcluded.Incontinence happens in many medicaland emotional,physcial ways for children and adults. Thisis disturbing for the individual as well as therefamilies.This is why again I have focused so much onhelping to help our children and adults.I just wanted tostress to you that some people just can't help beingincontinent and that no matter what a child or adult maybe suffering from physcial or mentally no one has a rightto try and take there dignity away nor the right to embarrass them.

Well tell me what you think!!!!

Until Next Time: Remember Children Are People Too

Losing Control:Caring For the Elderly And Incontinence.

Incontinence is an issue that very few people like to talk about.It is more commom than you may think,with over 12 million United States residents suffering from it every day.People of all ages can suffer from inconvenient and embarrassing condition,but the majority of those who do feel the effects of it are over the age sixty.Are you aware that it is much more common in women than men. This is largely owing to the fact that it is the women who have children and thus the muscles that control leakage from the bladder often let them down.If you are planning to or already do care for the elderly then it is an issue that you will have to face sooner rather than later.Unfortunately, the elderly are at risk of having at least one of the many causes of incontinence.These include,but are not limited to weakened pelvic muscles,urinary tract infections,enlarged prostate gland in men,diabetes,high calcium levels within the body.Most elderly people have at least one of the above,if not a combination of them and thus they cannot control their urinary functioning.Unfortunately , incontinence is not necessarily treatable in the elderly.You may well find yourself changing him or her every hour or so, which would also create a sense of embarrassment and discomfort for the individual in question.One thing we do know is.... it can be managed with the "Night Helper Potty Watch/Medication Reminder".

Until next time help your love one or elderly friend learn how to cope with incontinence without making him or her feel embarrassed and ashamed.


We all will need someone one day to assist us!!!!!

Stay Blessed

Veterans who suffers from incontinence .

Today we will talk about our Veterans. Do you know we have over 8 million Veterans who suffers from incontinence...that's a lot ha!!!!!! Our Veterans have suffered so many diagnosis from War that it is astronomical. All this is brought on by the trauma that they experience from War. Severe post-traumatic stress disorder,some admitted to psychiatric units,many on drugs 24 hrs. a day for nightmares.Some memories they just can't shake. Gun firing all day... the lost of life all around them,mental illness and even coming back to losing there homes and love ones.All this trauma would be to much for anyone to bare. This is why I have focused on an incontinence device that would at least help with one of the diagnosis for our Veterans. Many incontinence devices defeats the purpose.Many that are used allows the user to urinate first then alert them.With my new innovative timepiece it will help to recondition the brain( i.e. trains the user's brain to awaken and the user to act independently of assistance). This new innovative timepiece will help to eliminate the embarrassment that is associated with this ailment.Yes there are many alarms ,diapers,one-piece moisture absorba-briefs that are disposable and many compression devies to use. All of which allows the user to wet first.Night Helper Potty Watch is a preventive device allowing to help you to go before you urinate.Well until next time ....Support our Veterans with a word of Encouragment and give them the Respect that they well deserve. For if it was'nt for our Veterans fighting for our Country we all would be lost.

"God Bless"
CaringMom

What is bedwetting?

What is bedwetting?Bedwetting is when your child urinates during the night while he/she sleeps. Your child's doctor may refer to bedwetting as primary nocturnal enuresis.Bedwetting is not a disease or condition- in fact,it's normal and very common for children under age 5 to wet the bed.Bedwetting is more common then we think.If your child is between ages 5 and 15 and still wets the bed at night,he or she is not alone. An estimated 5 to 7 million children in the U.S. alone wet the bed. And believe it or not bedwettingis more common for boys than girls.Should I worry about bedwetting?Bedwetting usually becomes a concern when a child older than 5 wets the bed more than two times a month. Most children who wet the bed are physically and emotionally healthy,but if bedwetting continues and is not addressed,it can negatively affect your child's social and emotional development.Again this is why I have focused so much on developing a timepiece devices that will help our children and adults.Well until next time support your child with words of encouragement!!!!

This too shall pass.
CaringMom

Helping Our Children And Adults!!!!!!!

If you are reading my blog then you are in the right place at the right time. You see I am trying to make a difference in the lives of our children and adults, our shell-shock veterans who suffers from incontinence.Do you know we have over 7 million school-age children and over 4 million adults and yes we have over 8 million shell-shock veterans who suffers from Nocturnal Enuresis. This robs the user of a goodnight sleep and also robs them of there dignity.My timepeices has been designed to help change the lives of so many suffers. These device wil also be used for reminding the user to take there medication at the set desire time frame.I am having my manufacture looking into having them have aleast two emergency contact numbers included as we speak.These multi-devices will be able to offer so much more then any other device.Giving back to the user a sense of dignity and offering them a much healthier life. They come with many functions in which combined together will help alert the users.They carry two license customized jingles. Well I hope you have enjoyed my blog and I ask if you would like to leave me a comment please feel free.I will be happy to address any futher question upon request.
Thank You,
CaringMom......"NO MORE EMBARRASSMENTS"

What about our children.....

Do you know just the other day I check the Census Bureau's on bedwetting and it shows that we have aleast 8 million school-age children who suffers from incontinence of course we know that this is possible due to children are born everyday. Loss of bladder control is a common condition experienced by over 15 million Americans. Medication is also used as a treatment,but may cause side affects such as dry mouth,nausea and tireness. Surgery is also used to improve or cure incontinence if it is caused by structural problem such as abnormally positioned bladder or blockage due to enlarged prostate. If it cannot be cured in certain cases,it can be managed by the use of this special product which is the"The Night Helper Potty Watch". so with the ever growing trend of children being born,Nocturnal Enuresis will always exist. Again it can leave an individual exhausted-robbed of a good night's sleep,it can make travel uncomfortable or troublesome,or keep the joys and benefits of physical activity out of reach. Please help me make the lives of others free from incontinence.We all can make a differences.

CaringMom... (*.*)